There was a time when I lost everything—my job, the people I thought were family, and even myself. It felt as if my entire world crumbled away, and I mistakenly believed that all of that defined me. Society harshly judged me, measuring my worth against my own beliefs, standards, and values. I found myself confined by the expectations and opinions of others, entangled in the desire to please, conform, and fit into society’s mould, even when it didn’t align with my true self.
In doing so, I neglected the very reason for my presence on this planet. I reached my lowest point, convinced there was no way up. But it was crucial that I held onto my sense of self, refusing to seek validation or approval from others. I learned the hard way that my worth is not defined by external circumstances or the judgment of others.
I began facing adversity with grace, staying true to my own values despite society’s judgment. I realised that this earth is my stage to unveil my true passions, chase my dreams, and fulfill my unique destiny. I stopped pleasing others and allowing society to dictate my choices. I embraced my purpose and reclaimed my autonomy, breaking free from the chains of external validation.
Now, I allow myself to be ME. My purpose is to make a difference, to leave a lasting impact on the lives of others, and to always be true to myself. I gained valuable experience and perspective, enabling me to live my life differently and make smarter decisions that serve me. I realised that all I had lost was God’s way of insisting on new beginnings—a new start, a better outlook, and greater grace.
Starting from rock bottom was never failure for me; it was the best position to restart my journey. Failure is not “THE END”; it’s an indicator of what needs to change and an opportunity for growth. Each of you is here for a purpose that extends beyond your existence. You possess unique qualities for this journey—a personalized path just waiting to be explored. You have incredible potential within you.
Be authentic. Be bold. Be unapologetically true to yourself. Now, go out there and conquer!